Rooted in Love, You Rise
You’re not lost. You’re just tired of leaving yourself behind. You’ve carried the weight of expectations, pushed through pain, kept smiling through the ache and somewhere along the way, you disconnected from yourSelf.
But deep down, you know: you’re ready to come home.
Self+Love isn’t about feeling better. It’s about finally feeling safe enough to be real. To face what’s been buried. To soften where you used to shut down. To stop performing and start honoring the truth of who you are.
It’s how the sabotage ends. It’s how your Light begins to rise, not by striving, but by rooting.
When you choose Self+Love, you choose to stay. In your body. In your truth. In this life. Not because it’s perfect, but because it’s Sacred.
And from that place?
You rise.
Not all at once. But fully.
Rooted in Love.
The Shift You’ve Been Feeling
That quiet frustration? That ache for more?
It’s not a problem. It’s a message. You’ve outgrown the old ways, the pressure, the pushing, the pretending.
The roles you played to keep others happy no longer fit. The spaces you used to shrink into now feel too small. Even the dreams you once chased feel misaligned.
What’s rising in you now is the truth. And it’s asking to be honored, not ignored.
Self+Love helps you meet this shift with compassion instead of control. It supports you to pause without guilt. To feel without fear. To lead yourself forward, slowly, gently, honestly, with Love.
This is not a breakdown. It’s a breakthrough. A return to who you were before the world told you to be someone else.
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Meet Your Guide – Kim van de Sande
I’m Kim. And I know what it feels like to lose yourself while trying to be everything for everyone else.
I’ve been through burnout, loss, shame, numbness. I know what it’s like to smile on the outside while unraveling inside.
And I also know what happens when you stop trying to fix yourself and start Loving yourself instead.
That’s what this work is. It’s not about giving you more rules. It’s about helping you feel safe enough to let your walls down. To breathe. To feel. To come back home to your body and your wisdom.
I created this space because we all deserve a place to return to. To remember we were never broken. To rebuild trust with our Selves. To rise, softly, powerfully, rooted in Love.
If that’s what you’re ready for…
Welcome home.
How We Can Walk This Journey Together
This is for the woman who’s done performing. Done abandoning herself. Done chasing worth she already holds.
If that’s you, I offer spaces to meet you where you are, and walk beside you from there:
1-on-1 Mentorship & Private Coaching
Deeply personalized support.
This isn’t about doing more, it’s about holding you while you do it differently. To help you trust yourSelf, claim your space, and live from your truth.
Flower of Love Embodiment, 6-Month (Group) Journey
A 6-month space to rebuild from the inside out. Together, we release old identities and root into a new way of living, one that’s honest, embodied, and yours.
NEW Rooted in Love
Book & Companion Workbook
If you’re ready to start now, these are your companions.
The book helps you remember your truth. The workbook helps you live it, day by day, breath by breath.
NEW Rooted in Love
Book & Companion Workbook
Rooted in Love: You Are the Temple
This isn’t a book of answers. It’s a book that helps you hear your own.
A sacred companion for the woman who’s ready to stop performing and start listening. Every word meets you in your realness, your tiredness, your truth, your quiet hope.
You’ll feel less alone. You’ll soften toward yourself. You’ll remember that who you are is not too much, or not enough, it’s exactly right.
Every page is a breath. A pause. A mirror reminding you:
You are the temple. Your life is the offering.
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Rooted in Love: The Companion Workbook
This is the practice. Where remembering becomes rhythm. Where insight becomes embodiment.
You’ll write. Reflect. Gently rebuild trust with yourSelf. Not by fixing, but by meeting yourself, again and again, in truth, with Love.
Simple rituals. Supportive prompts. Space to feel what’s real. Because healing and growth doesn’t happen through pressure, it happens through permission.
This is how Self+Love becomes a way of life.
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The Next Step Is Yours
You already know this is for you.
Not because everything feels clear. But because something inside you is whispering: It’s time.
You’re ready to stop abandoning yourself. To stop waiting for permission. To start building a life from the inside out.
Self+Love won’t erase the hard, but it will change how you meet it.
With compassion. With boundaries. With power that isn’t pushed, it’s rooted in Love.
Say yes to your Self.
Say yes to your return.